7 Important Things Your Gynaecologist Wants You To Know

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Written By: Dr. Berrin Tezcan

There’s no shortage of misinformation about women’s health. It’s everywhere – on social media, in old wives’ tales, even in casual conversations. The trouble is, many of these myths sound believable. They stick. And before you know it, what’s essentially a rumour is shaping how people care for their bodies. A gynaecologist’s role isn’t only to diagnose and treat; it’s to cut through the noise and to clarify what really matters.

This isn’t about fear-mongering or shaming anyone for not knowing the details of their own body, however. Most of us were never taught them in the first place. The goal here is different – highlighting the insights that we as your gynaecologists want you to have on your side – because once you have them, you can make decisions that are grounded in facts, not half-truths.

Routine Check-Ups Are More Important Than You Think

People often postpone gynaecological appointments until something feels wrong. It’s understandable – life gets in the way, and discomfort or embarrassment doesn’t help. But skipping regular check-ups can mean missing early signs of issues that are far easier to treat if caught on time. Not only is early detection absolutely key for cervical or ovarian concerns, but routine exams can reveal hormonal imbalances or infections that might otherwise go unnoticed.

Your gynaecologist doesn’t just run through a checklist – they can identify subtle changes that even blood tests or scans might miss. Think of these visits as preventive care, not reactionary steps.

Menstrual Cycles Reveal More Than Fertility

A menstrual cycle isn’t just about reproduction, it’s a window into your overall health. Changes in flow, timing, or symptoms can signal shifts in hormones, stress levels, or even underlying conditions like PCOS or thyroid issues.

Some women dismiss irregularities as “normal for them,” but cycles are often like a built-in health monitor. A gynaecologist can help decode the signs and, if necessary, guide you towards solutions that restore balance. This is where understanding the importance of hormonal balance comes into play; hormones regulate far more than periods – they influence mood, energy, skin, and long-term health.

Fertility Is More Complex Than Age Alone

It’s common to hear that fertility simply declines after 30, but the reality isn’t that binary. Age matters, yes, but so do lifestyle factors, genetics, and overall reproductive health. Stress, diet, sleep patterns – all of these play a role that people often overlook.

Your gynaecologist can help assess ovarian reserve, discuss fertility preservation if needed, and create realistic timelines. Not only is this approach more informed, but it removes some of the panic that often surrounds discussions about “biological clocks.”

Pregnancy Scans Are About More Than Baby Pictures

For some, ultrasounds are treated like milestones to collect for a photo album. They are that, in part – but they’re also critical diagnostic tools. Scans can detect structural issues, monitor growth, and flag complications early enough to intervene.

Accessing high-resolution foetal health scans ensures a level of detail that basic imaging can’t provide, and this precision helps both you and your medical team make informed decisions long before delivery.

Pain Should Never Be Normalised

woman sitting on couch in pain

There’s a widespread belief that period pain or discomfort during intercourse is simply “part of being a woman.” That is simply not true. Severe pain is never something to brush off – it can be linked to endometriosis, pelvic inflammatory disease, or fibroids.

Not only is early treatment key to avoiding long-term complications, but addressing pain promptly will massively improve your quality of life. And as gynaecologists, our job isn’t just to confirm diagnoses – it’s to listen, investigate, and ensure your concerns aren’t dismissed.

Birth Control Isn’t One-Size-Fits-All

Contraception does more than just prevent pregnancy, it’s also about regulating cycles, managing acne, or reducing pain. But what works well for one person might be problematic for another. Pills, patches, implants, IUDs… the list is long, and so are the side-effect profiles.

A thoughtful gynaecologist will look beyond quick fixes, weighing factors like your medical history, hormone levels, and long-term goals. Not only does this approach help you avoid unnecessary side effects, but it ensures you’re choosing a method that truly fits your lifestyle.

Sexual Health Is About More Than STIs

Conversations about sexual health often start and end with STI screenings. While important, the bigger picture includes vaginal microbiome health, lubrication, and the impact of stress or medications on libido. These are subjects people shy away from – but they matter just as much as test results.

Your gynaecologist can provide support and solutions that aren’t limited to prescriptions. Sometimes it’s about lifestyle adjustments, sometimes about therapy, and sometimes about both. Either way, ignoring these concerns only makes them worse over time.

Final Thoughts

What your gynaecologist wants for you isn’t complicated. It’s knowledge, clarity, and the freedom to make informed choices about your body. Not only does that mean showing up for appointments and asking questions, but it also means unlearning some of the myths we’ve all been fed, whether through poor education or a viral TikTok video. 

Because truth is rarely as simple as a headline or social media post would have you believe. But once you understand the basics – how hormones shape everything from mood to fertility, why pain isn’t something to “tough out,” and when to seek help – you’re far better equipped to protect your long-term health.

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Berrin completed her specialist training in London and she is a Fellow of Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists. She worked in the NHS as a senior obstetrician and gynaecologist since 2005. She has over 20 years experience in the specialty.

Dr. Berrin Tezcan – CEO & Founder, Consultant Obstetrician, Gynaecologist, and Fetal Medicine Specialist
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